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If the truth was told instead of a lie,
then the pain would go away sooner and not hurt as much.

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    LOVE
    Date: Tuesday, December 1, 2009
    Blogged @ 7:50 PM - RUTHLOVESJOJO!

    I read an articles and want to share with you guys! (: 


    Is it all just about understanding each other more and communicating with each other more and therefore you conveniently call this Love? I beg to differ because something goes more deeper than that.  

    Love is not just all about communicating and understanding each other but sharing your lives with each other. You have a great day at work and want to rush home and tell them every wonderful thing that has happened. You feel excited at the prospect of just being in their company, just being close to them isn't enough, you want to be a part of them, a part of their life. You can't stand the thought of being away from them yet, when you are, you still feel that ever-present bond that ties you together wherever you go. You can almost feel what they are feeling.


    On the contrary, at the other side of the spectrum, there are a host of emotions that people tend to confuse with love. One of the most common is lust. There is a difference between wanting to sleep with someone and wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone.
    An act of love is much more meaningful than making love itself.

    Having good looks/a great figure does not bring a relationship far.

    Love at first sight     is what some people believe in and which in my opinion it is not love at all. Reason being, people who believe in love at first sight believe they love the person's outer beauty but not the inner beauty.

    10 years down the road, when wrinkles start to crease at your face, your figure is no longer looking good, is that going to inspire your partner to take interest in you like before? Statics have shown the divorce rates are high and usually, generally, when men have an affair, aren't those women looking good and gorgeous? 

    If you met a car accident which turned you into a handicap or your face is burnt in a fire disfigured, Love is when you accept unconditionally.

    Choosing between outer beauty and inner beauty, it is the latter that sustains a relationship. When there is sharing of each other lives, being part of each other lives, having intellectual conversations is what keeps the relationship going. Looks will fade and wither but what stays on? Bonding of hearts that is. When bonding hearts are bind through the sense of time that will never wither through the passing years, till old age.


    LOVE should not be agonizing and painful.